1 month update

It’s been over a month since Aaron was born.  The time went both slowly and quickly.  Slowly during those early days coping with sleep deprivation and learning the hard way all the tricks of becoming a new parent.  Quickly because, well, it’s already been a month and I can see so much growth already.  Some milestones over the past 4 weeks include:

week 1: breastfeeding – it was painful for both of us.  He developed nipple confusion from taking some glucose water and formula from a bottle, so our first night home included an epic fight to get him to latch onto the breast.  For the next few weeks, I dealt with sore, blistered nipples 😦

week 2:  sleeping – sleep deprivation started to wear on me at this point.  Fortunately, Aaron started to sleep better through the night, and he took regular daytime naps.

week 3:  stir-crazy – baby blues combined with being confined indoors started to drive me crazy.  I didn’t think that it would affect me that much since I normally don’t get very moody and my emotions were pretty level during pregnancy, but it’s so crazy how hormones can affect a woman on such a level! 

week 4:  sleeping again – somehow, Aaron’s developed an attachment to being held.  Late this week, it’s gotten to the point where he won’t nap unless he’s held during the day.  Strangely, he still sleeps perfectly well during the night in his crib.  What to do?

Now we’re in week 5, and aside from the daytime napping issues, he’s great – eating, pooping, and growing like crazy. 

Here’s a picture of Aaron from his first Halloween, dressed as a bee!

Welcome Baby Aaron!

After months of waiting and preparing, Aaron arrived on September 30th at 1:45am – just a few hours past his expected due date! 

He’s so precious.  Ever since we first laid eyes on him at the hospital, we’ve been amazed and delighted by everything he does. 

I have to admit, the first few weeks having him home were EXTREMELY tough.  No matter how much one can prepare for parenthood, there’s nothing that you can do to know exactly how challenging it is, especially for a first time mom like me.  From breastfeeding to sleep deprivation to baby blues, every day was a challenge.  However, now that he’s 3 weeks old, life has gotten a bit easier.  We sort of know what we’re doing, and we’ve also been fortunate to have help from family members a few days a week. 

Even though he’s not even a month old yet, Aaron’s already changed a lot.  Initially, all he did was eat, sleep and poop, with occasional crying throughout the day.  Now, he’s more alert during the day and he’s sleeping a little longer at night.  Born a small baby – 6lbs 3 oz – he’s been gaining weight at a steady pace, which makes sense given the amount of breastmilk he takes everyday.  I think he’s close to 7 lbs. by now!

Despite the fact that life as I know is forever changed with the addition of a baby, I’m looking forward to what lays ahead with Aaron and our new threesome family.  Now, it’s time for a nap!

Bye bye work…hello maternity leave!

Last Wednesday was my last day of work before maternity leave.  I’ve been looking forward to this for  months but now that it’s here, I’m finding myself being rather bored and restless.  Everyone’s been telling me to relax, rest up, and do absolutely nothing, especially since I’ll never be able to regain this time once the baby’s born, but try as I might, this is tougher to do than it sounds!  Maybe it’s because of my short attention span – I can barely sit through a movie or spend hours finishing up a craft project.  Or perhaps the pregnancy makes it difficult to be in one position for long periods of time.  Whatever the case…man, I’m really bored.  It doesn’t help that I’m stuck without a car since it’s currently at the dealer’s. 

I guess it’s time to go refold the baby’s clothes (for the 10th time).

9th month – just a few more weeks till baby arrives!

It’s hard to believe almost 9 months of pregnancy are over and that my life will be forever different with the addition of a new member to our family.  Though we’ve spent the past few months slowly preparing for the little one, I don’t think the reality of this event has hit us yet.  It’s fun to squeal over cute baby clothes, obsess over strollers and cribs, and decorate the baby room, but I’ve tended to gloss over (or not think about) the hard parts – labor, saying goodbye to uninterrupted sleep, endless loads of laundry, lack of alone time, etc.  However, moms have been doing this for thousands of years, so I’ll get the hang of it, right?

I’ve come to terms with gaining 35+ lbs. since January.  It seems like ages ago when I competed in a mini-Biggest Loser competition…which ultimately left me $600 poorer since I found out I was pregnant during the last week of the competition.  I guess one good thing about being broke is that I have no choice but to lose the weight to fit into my old clothes…no money for a new wardrobe!

Here’s a shadow pic from my 5th month…at the time I thought I looked huge, but compared to now, that’s nothing!

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Dreamy Diana Lens Fun

I bought a Diana lens with adapter for dSLRs several months ago and of course forgot about it.  While on an organizing binge, I rediscovered it in our office storage closet, and thought I should try it out again for fun.  Experimenting both indoors and outdoors, I found that it takes very pretty, dreamy, soft focus pictures. 

It’s not the easiest lens to play with – I didn’t realize when I first bought it that you can only use the manual setting when using this lens, and the only thing you can adjust is the shutter speed to produce unique effects.  That’s probably why I lost interest when I first purchased this lens.  Since then, I’ve taken a beginners photography class and now actually know how to use my camera on manual setting.

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When I lose the baby weight…

I’m gonna go on a huge shopping spree!  Just kidding…we’re going to be so broke by then.  New baby + single income (during my maternity leave) + husband’s b-school tuition equals eating ramen noodles by candlelight at night for the next 3 years.

One of my favorite online shops, Red Dress Shoppe, recently added some cute retro-inspired dresses to their inventory.  I fantasize about fitting into their size small like I used to.  Now, I”ll be happy to squeeze into a large. 

The Holly Dress looks airy and comfortable
The Miss Sadie Dress looks like something out of “Mad Men”
The Lemon Drop dress looks perfect for summer
Love the huge rose belt on the Shoshanna dress
See their entire stock on their website – there’s tons of great retro-inspired clothing at a very reasonable price!  I’m so tempted to buy something right now…to help motivate me to lose weight, of course…haha…

Where did the summer go???

Wow, I can’t believe it’s already mid-August!  Why is it that summer flys by so quickly?  It’s been a weird one in LA this year…the weather has been unusually mild, with temperatures averaging in the high 70’s, even in the valley!  Normally this time of year, the valley’s scorching with temps over 100 on average.  Not to complain though…I was dreading a hot, sweaty summer during my last trimester of pregnancy.  God’s blessed all the pregnant mamas in LA with great weather this year.  Hopefully this won’t mean we’ll have a crazy heat wave in the fall, though!

Second trimester of pregnancy was great – I had tons of energy, slept pretty well, and had a healthy appetite (almost too healthy, since I gained about 25 lbs. during that time!)  Unfortunately, third trimester isn’t so wonderful.  The past few weeks have been pretty tough…lots of back pain, especially from the afternoon on, difficulty sleeping at night, heartburn, and peeing every hour has been super annoying.  Good thing there’s a light at the end of the tunnel, since the little guy’s due at  the end of September! 

I’ve done a fair amount of travel during my pregnancy.  Here’s the rundown:
-March: Pismo Beach for a destination wedding
-May: Bachelorette party in Santa Barbara, 1 year anniversay/babymoon to Cabo
-June: Chicago and San Diego for business trips
-July: Hawaii for a destination wedding

The last trip, while it was super awesome, was definitely tiring.  My aches and pains started after I got home from the airport and haven’t really gotten much better since.  Now’s the time to take it easy, which means I’ll be missing my nephew’s 1st birthday in Seattle at the end of the month.

My Retro Baby plus giveaway from Design Mom

Design Mom is giving away a $250 gift certificate to My Retro Baby, a really cute website with all things retro for your little one!  They have all sorts of stuff, from baby clothes to shower favors, all with a vintage twist.  The website itself is adorable too, so check it out!

The most awesome items are the retro pedal cars – check out a few:

The deluxe fire truck classic pedal car.  Look at all that detail!

Pink Princess pedal car.  Totally cute!

Photo experimentation

With summer approaching and daylight hours growing longer, I came home from work and played around with taking some pictures as the sun was setting. 

I love the look of shooting into the sun and capturing flare, so I tried replicating it:
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I’ve been too chicken to venture out of my backyard with my camera for some reason. 
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Sophie was watching me quizzically during the entire process.  My favorite subject graciously allowed me to capture one nice photo of her before she went to chase some squirrels.